This is very difficult. I must say that I don't really hold a grudge on anyone, it's just that I don't easily forget too. If there's someone I have to forgive now for something, it will be my now ex-officemate who made my life a living hell in the more than a year that we've been officemates. I forgive him for everything. It's quite funny that he has always undermined me and badmouthed me, and even if I have done not a single thing against him, I am always his suspect whenever his attention is called by management. Talk about paranoia.
No, I haven't forgiven him, and I don't know if I ever can. I know I have to forgive him. Maybe someday. Then again, maybe never.
